One brave “yes” can change
a child’s life forever.
Raising Reagan is more than a story. It is a testimony of love, faith, sacrifice, and the belief that a family can be formed through courage, commitment, and unconditional love.
MEET
MERRY CARIAGA
Christian American author, mother, and Preferred Dave Ramsey Financial Coach. Her journey of becoming a single mother by choice through foster-to-adoption is a story of faith, resilience, and the power of unconditional love.
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Raising Reagan
A heartfelt true story of a woman who chose a path less traveled—motherhood by choice. A testimony of faith, healing, and hope that will inspire your heart.
INSIDE THE JOURNEY
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHTS
Case of a Child Taken into State Custody
Opening My Heart to Adopting Through the System
Getting Certified to Foster-to-Adopt a Child in Oklahoma
My Match
Our First Together
Overcoming Adversity
Trauma and Triggers Are Very Real
There's Hope
...and More Powerful Chapters
Merry’s Blog: Stories of Hope & Courage
Why Children Enter Foster Care and What They Need
Learn why children enter foster care, what state custody means, and how steady, trauma-informed love can offer safety, healing, and lasting hope to families.
Can Love Heal Trauma? What Children Need Most
Can love heal trauma? Compassionate, faith-rooted guidance on safety, attachment, therapy, and steady care for children and families finding hope together.
10 Best Prayers for Adoptive Parents
Find the best prayers for adoptive parents, from the waiting season to trauma-informed parenting, and hold fast to God’s faithful love each day, together.
The Book Series
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Raising Reagan
A Journey of a Single Woman, Becoming a Mother by Choice: A Story of Healing, Hope, Faith, and Foster-to-Adopt.
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Alone With God
Understanding God's Presence Through the Greatest Storms of Life. A message of faith, perseverance, and spiritual growth.
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Top reviews from the United States
Adoption is one of the greatest gifts
Reviewed in the United States on July 15, 2026
I highly recommend this book to anyone considering adoption or wanting to better understand the realities of the adoption journey.
The author does an exceptional job of honestly sharing her experiences, emotions, and the challenges of raising a child who has experienced trauma. Her vulnerability makes the story both relatable and deeply moving.
What stood out most was her perseverance and unwavering faith in God, which provided strength and comfort through difficult circumstances.
This book offers valuable insight, encouragement, and hope for prospective adoptive parents, as well as anyone seeking a greater understanding of trauma-informed parenting.
This is a heartfelt, inspiring, and informative read that I believe every prospective adoptive parent should add to their reading list.
Go Reagan!
The cover is so peaceful but she tells about the scars of life. I'll be recommending this book to others.
A beautiful adoption story
A beautiful story of a woman's determination to change a boy's life through adoption.
Encouraging transformation of lives
I found this book captivating in so many ways. The story highlights the journey of two completely different lives and how they were transformed and given a chance by one woman's "yes." If you're looking for a book to truly motivate you in the face of adversity and provide strength when things are difficult, this is a wonderful read. It is truly encouraging and inspirational.
An inspiring and empowering journey to motherhood
This book is beautifully written and deeply inspiring account of a woman's journey to becoming a mother by choice. From the first chapter, I was captivated by the honesty, vulnerability, and courage woven throughout the story. It offers an authentic look at the emotional highs and lows, the difficult decisions, and the incredible strength it takes to pursue motherhood on your own terms. I highly recommend this book to any woman who has ever dreamed of becoming a mother, regardless of her relationship status. It is a powerful testament to courage, perseverance, and the many beautiful ways a family can begin.
Faith, prayers and dreams come true
An incredible read from beginning to end. This book is inspiring and a powerful reminder that faith and perseverance can carry you farther than you ever imagined. It is a testament to the power of believing and continuing to pray, even when the path isn't easy.
An Unforgettable Read
My friend Merry Cariaga, wrote this beautifully written book that is inspiring, she has a true gift for unpacking raw truth. She writes with such heart and emotional depth. A fantastic and encouraging read! Highly recommend!